You just can't bring yourself to go through the same stuff you've always done to fix this.

You used to be able to go on a diet, stick with it for 6 months, and when you fell off it, you'd just get back on, or try another diet or program.

Something inside you won't let you do that anymore. 

You can't bring yourself to go on another diet or weight loss plan, or follow a set of food rules when you know it's only a matter of time before it collapses.

You can't bring yourself to sit through another Overeaters Anonymous meeting, when not a single person there lives the life you aspire for.

Therapy has given you healing and peace in other areas of your life, but not food.

You've been blaming yourself for lack of discipline. But most people would say you ARE disciplined. So why not with food?

Maybe the problem isn't you. Maybe it's the strategies themselves.

What if you not being able to stick to the things you used to, isn't a bad sign at all? What if it's actually a blessing in disguise, pointing you to something better?

Ever hear the saying, “Rejection is protection?”

The ‘solutions’ you’ve been 'failing' were never meant for you.

They’ve required you to revolve your life around food. To follow rigid plans. They’ve been based in fear, control, and scarcity. To ignore and distrust your body. hey’ve been focused on what you’re trying to lose, rather than what you’ve been trying to gain.

That's not how you actually want to live. 

But what if your years of food struggles could be resolved with a completely different type of process?

And what if that process led you to become a person who doesn't struggle with food at all? Where do you don't have to 'manage' it, but food is simply a non-issue? 

That's a big goal upgrade.

Food is pointing you to where your inner work is ... to become free. To truly become a person who has a genuinely peaceful, nourishing, and healthy relationship with food.

That person would never decide to go on a diet, obsess about weight, or crave a binge.

And that person also wouldn't use restrictive, stressful, and all-consuming strategies to create more peace and freedom in their relationship with food, would they?

The only reason you haven't strived for this yet is because you didn't think it was possible. But it is.

My friend, this is not the beginning of the end. You're just in the dark night of the soul.

That's a pivotal moment, and when you look back on it, you'll realize, "This didn't happen TO me. This happened FOR me."

To lead you to something so much better.

Because staying in the same 'solutions' has only led you to where you are now ... still fighting.  And while they served their purpose, one thing remains true:

You can't climb higher on a ladder, without first letting go of the bottom rung.

As you learn to release your old ways and set your sights higher, you'll be led to a path that's more elevated, richer and sweeter than you could have imagined.